{Reveal} The Faeries' Oracle

Happy Monday mermaids! This week I have decided to use one of my newest oracle card decks, The Faeries' Oracle by Brian Froud and Jessica Macbeth to deliver your weekly motivational messages. Be sure to leave me a comment below with your feedback and if your message resonated with you! I'd love to hear it! <3


What is "faery"? "Faery" is an old term that embraces all the elves and gnomes and fairies and other folk, small and large, of the otherworld. It includes the angels whose wings spread across the cosmos, and the wee things that go bump in the night while they scrub your kitchen, tie your shoes neatly to each other, and knot elf locks in your hair as you sleep.

 

The word faery also means the place - Faery, the land of all the faeries, also known as the otherworld. Faery is alongside our everyday world, almost but not quite in synchronization with us, overlapping in some ways, different in others, and operating on a different level of energy.  

 

Using the Faeries' Oracle is not like reading with any other card deck, whether tarot or oracle. In other decks we are working with archetypes and intellectual concepts. In The Faeries' Oracle we are, of course, still concerned with those. However, we are also interacting with the living, breathing faery beings. They are just as real as we are, if not more so, but they are very different from us. These differences and the faeries' inimitable approach to life will provide us with some interesting joys, challenges, and experiences as we become acquainted with and use this deck.

 

 

Card #1 Nelys the Alchemyst

Inner Transformation. Irrevocable Change.

 

When Nelys turns up in your reading. get ready for things to happen, inwardly and outwardly. The stuck becomes unstuck, the blocked begins to move. You may have to run to keep up with the speed at which the situation around you is moving. You may also be surprised by the direction things (and you) are taking. You may find your plans, even your desires and dreams, changing as the transformative process takes place. It might not have been in your plans, but later on you will look back and say, "Wow! It wasn't what I expected, but it was just what I needed."

 

When we have been through such an alchemical process, we can never go back to what we were before - which is probably just as well.

 

 

Card #2 The Singer of Transfiguration

Transformation. Transcendence. Metamorphosis.

 

Jackpot! This card in a reading signifies the joy of success after a time of struggle. A new way of life has been accepted and is being integrated. A sense of inner peace is growing. The struggle has all been worth it. This is a time of consolidation and joy, and is both a reward for past achievements and a time of preparation for the next climb up the path.

 

 

Card #3 Gloominous Doom

Self-defeat. Self-Pity. Self-destruction. Taking care of ourselves.

 

It is time to face the fact that our attitudes and beliefs about ourselves are our own. We may have learned them from others, but the others are not responsible for them in the here and now. We are. If we choose self-pity and pessimism, we make a choice that makes our lives worse. When this card appears in a reading, it indicates that this is a time when understanding that concept is especially important - a time when there is some sort of a crunch in the situation that offers someone the opportunity to notice and change such self-destructive habits. If it is yourself, you know what you need to do. If it is someone else, you may wish to consider how you might support them in this opportunity for change. Can you make sure to give positive feedback at every appropriate opportunity? Can you refrain from nagging, scolding, or complaining at them when they get it wrong? These things help.

I hope you enjoyed this interactive reading! Be sure to meet me back here on the Nobella Grace Blog every Monday so I can help get your week set off in the right direction with each card picked with YOU in mind! :)

 

XOXO, Karabears

What to Wear for ((Thanksgiving))

Hi Mermaids!

I don't know about you, but I am stressing at the fact that Halloween is long gone and Thanksgiving is next week! I have 5 million things on my holiday season to do list and the last thing I want to do is stress over my outfit choices. Simple and easy, I reach for my favorite Nobella Grace pieces and create something for any type of Thanksgiving atmosphere. When it comes to creating a Thanksgiving ensemble in a snap, just remember the three C's: Casual, Cozy, and Classy. Which one will YOU choose?

Casual

This outfit is perfect for a laidback evening with family and friends. Grab a comfy cardi and some distressed jeans! Add some booties and simple, delicate jewelry to finish off the look. Be casual, comfy, and pulled together at the same time! Shop some of my favorite Nobella Grace cardis and distressed jeans here: ((Mint + Fringe Cardi)), ((Paige Skinny Jeans)), ((Sadie Cardi)), and ((Scarlett Jeans)).

Cozy

Headed to Thanksgiving dinner on a chilly evening? Why not be cozy, but super chic at the same time? I love this gorgeous tribal print dress paired with thick fleece lined leggings, and knee high riding boots. Shop some of my favorite cozy/casual NBG dresses here: ((Brooklyn Dress)), ((Belles Blues Dress)), and ((Cari Pocket Dress)).

 Classy

If you need to dress up on Thanksgiving for a special dinner or event, don't fret! Grab a gorgeous full length dress and a WOW statement necklace. Pair this beautiful outfit with a pair of your favorite heels! Shop some of my favorite ultra classy and stunning Nobella Grace dresses here: ((Boho Maxi Dress)), ((Boho Vibes Maxi Dress)), and ((Ellie Maxi Dress)).

Thanks for reading along, lovely ladies! Can't wait to see all of your Thanksgiving #OOTDs! Don't forget to tag @nobellagrace to show off your #nbgstyle!

Until Next Time,

Jenna

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Girl-Bossy Reads

Happy Friday, loves! 

Can you believe we’re basically already in mid-November?! I keep asking myself where the time is going?! I’m currently in grad school and it truly seems like this semester has flown by, and that’s both a good and bad thing, so much cramming left to do, eeeeek!

As we dive into the holiday season I thought it would be fun to share some of my favorite “girl bossy” reads with y’all! I recently launched my own person fashion and lifestyle blog and have really enjoyed reading books that are all focused on empowering women and gaining inspiration and know-how from these tales, and also a few of my fave “self-help” books on dating, because A) I have to humor myself somehow and B) what the h*** does a girl have to do to get a dude to talk to her?! Anyone else in this same boat, please say I! But really though...it's  a w f u l. 

Okay, so here we go! (I stole these descriptions from Amazon, whoopsie! Just felt like those descriptions might be a little more powerful than mine! ;) )

Girl Boss by Sophia Amoruso: Sophia Amoruso is the Founder and Executive Chairman of Nasty Gal. A creative visionary and entrepreneur who was recently named by Forbes as “Fashion’s new phenom,” she has become one of the most prominent figures in retail and a cultural icon. She recently founded the #GIRLBOSS Foundation, which awards financial grants to women in the worlds of design, fashion, music, and the arts, to help fund them on their way to becoming GIRLBOSS’s themselves. #GIRLBOSS, a New York Times bestseller published in fifteen countries around the world, is Sophia’s first book.

Girl Code by Cara Alwill Leyba: Cara Alwill Leyba is an Author and Master Life Coach from New York City who encourages women to create a "Champagne Life" that entails living effervescently, celebrating themselves every day, and making their happiness a priority. She runs an international boutique coaching practice where she works with burnt-out, bored women who know they are meant for more. Through loving guidance, support and an expert perspective, Cara empowers women to challenge their fears and create a lifestyle and career that feels authentic, vibrant, and inspiring.

He’s Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt: It’s a classic single-woman scenario: you really like this guy, but he’s giving mixed messages. You make excuses, decide he’s confused, afraid of commitment. Behrendt, a former executive story editor for Sex and the City—and a formerly single (now happily married) guy who knows all the excuses—provides a simple answer: he’s just not that into you. Stop kidding yourself, let go and look for someone else who will be. After all, as Behrendt sensibly puts it, "if a (sane) guy really likes you, there ain’t nothing that’s going to get in his way." If you’re not convinced yet, by all means read this smart, funny and surprisingly upbeat little book, full of q’s and a’s covering every excuse woman has ever made to avoid admitting to herself that a man just wasn’t that smitten with her.

It’s Just a F***ing Date by Greg Behrendt: "The book is jam-packed with straight-talking tips on how to bag your man, and quite frankly, we can't put it down." - The Sun Why does dating have to be so hard? It doesn't! Stop trying to out-game the system and relax. IT'S JUST A F***ING DATE presents the tools, not the rules, for bringing back the art of the date. The ordeals of 21st century dating, from online dating and hooking up to pulling the plug when it isn't working, will soon be easy to navigate. With tips to define what is and isn't a date, how to get asked out, and setting your own dating standards, dating won't seem old-fashioned, it will be fun. Bestselling authors Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola return to the minefield of modern relationships with this revised and updated edition.

Not That Kind of Girl by Lena Dunham: In an era where twenty-something women are told how to think, where to work, who to date, and what to wear, it’s refreshing that a voice has broken the mold to empower women to do one thing—be yourself, flaws and all. In Not That Kind of Girl, Lena Dunham takes readers on a voyage of self-discovery as she successfully navigates the often-perilous facets of womanhood, from dating and friendships to self-love and careers. Through her series of essays, Dunham shares what she’s learned on her path to self-awareness with a refreshing candor and raw honesty that emboldens readers. Her painfully-relatable stories of graduating from one-night stands with toxic men and dead-end jobs with no purpose, to loving relationships and a fulfilling career will leave you laughing, cringing, and sighing “me too.” Thoughtful, hilarious, and exquisitely-written, Dunham’s memoir is like reading your quirky big sister's diary. –Brittany Pirozzolo

Why Not Me? By Mindy Kaling: In Why Not Me? Mindy Kaling has solidified her position as “most valuable friend.” Just like Mindy, these essays are exuberantly funny, deeply introspective and refreshingly thoughtful. From her relationship with BJ Novak and the guy who worked for the president, to creating her TV show and announcing the Emmy nominations, Mindy’s just-between-us-friends approach makes you love her just a little bit more after each story, and you’ll even question if Mindy is your soup snake. By all conventional measures Mindy Kaling should not be where she is, and that is the beauty of the stories she shares—“Work hard, know your shit, show your shit, and then feel entitled.” Accessible and empowering, Why Not Me? makes you want to stand up and shout, “Why not me, too?”--Deborah Bass

If you’re in for a good read with a whole lot of inspo and girl power, I’d HIGHLY recommend cuddling up with any one of these reads as we all see our weather begin to change as the cold continues to approach. And! If you’re already on your gift-giving game, pick a couple of these up for the girl boss in your life as a fun holiday present!

Until next time, loves!

Chelsea E. Sheridan

www.prettypinkandproper.com

IG: @chelseaesheridan

Tis' The Season

Hey girls, Kendall and Kelsey here!

‘Tis the season of Pumpkin Spice Lattes, layers, and booties – are we right or are we right?  Fall is the most wonderful time of year in our humble opinion (and really in the opinion of all those wonderful cardigans waiting to come out of our closets).

I mean, seriously, who doesn’t love fall?!  It is the perfect opportunity to wear more clothes.  Yes, yes we get it – less is more – but not when it comes to layers.  You get to wear that cute tank AND that chunky cardigan.  That is a win-win situation if we have ever heard one!  Who is with us here?

A definite go-to outfit for us is an oversized cardigan paired with a flowy dress.  We just can’t get enough of this look, and you’re in luck because you can totally shop that look here in the Nobella Grace store!  Shop your hearts out ladies and thank us when you are living in a dreamland where comfy meets cute.

On a serious note, we are just excited for the change of season.  Fall always helps us transition into a more relaxed, cozy season.  Days shift from being packed with activities to a little bit slower-paced, where socializing becomes over a cup of coffee by the Starbucks fireplace. 

Ushering in the fall season always comes with a sense of gratitude for us as well.  This year, we have been so thankful to meet women like you.  It is truly incredible to meet like-minded fashionistas with a love of style and self-expression.  We are all about building community and sharing life with one another, and we have found that here at Nobella Grace and our community with The Radiant Life.

Thank you for walking with us in this journey, it is so fun to chat all things style, womanhood, and fun with you guys!

xo, Kendall + Kelsey

{{Reveal}} The Anubis Oracle

Happy Wednesday Mermaids!! This week I decided to use The Anubis Oracle: A Journey Into the Shamanic Mysteries of Egypt by Nicki Scully & Linda Star Wolf & Illustrated by Kris Waldherr to deliver your weekly motivational messages. Be sure to leave me a comment below with your feedback and if your message resonated with you! I'd love to hear it! <3

Card #1 Sacred Purpose

Ptah, Nut, Geb, and Anubis

Ptah speaks from his intelligent heart and reality is created. Anubis, the fully awakened Shaman Priest, enters the sacred garden through the portal created by the divine parents - the overarching sky goddess, Nut, and the rich, green and fertile Earth god, Geb. Thoth is also present as the rainbow serpent who offers the fruit of wisdom and eternal life from the ancient tree. 

As you focus on the images on this card, perceive your current life situations with the open hearted wisdom of the Shaman Priest, Anubis, so that what is being birthed or created through your thoughts, words, activities, and everyday story have the greatest potential for completion and wholeness. 

Card #2 Amun-Ra

Solar Energies: Transfiguration • Alchemical Gold

Amun-Ra brings together the great solar gods, Amun and Ra, who unite to represent the sun in the fullness of its mysteries. Honoring both the bright golden illuminating brilliance of the day, and the hidden, mysterious night journey when the sun is invisible, Amun-Ra announces our opportunity to step into our full inner authority, into an awakened state of illumined consciousness. When you can fully embrace the cycles of life and death, and pass through the portals of light and dark, each transforms into its opposite. 

In the dance of Ra and Amun, an alchemical process is unleashed as the seen mixes with the unseen. That which is consciously created from that awareness - a project, event, or object - is the spiritualized matter, the alchemical gold. We ourselves are the spiritualized matter when we engage with Amun-Ra, who infuses us with dignity and royalty. The powerful light from the Solar Mysteries shines upon us and transfigures us, and we become spiritually mature beings who embody shamanic consciousness in everyday life. Amun-Ra helps us to realize that everything we need to heal ourselves and our world is within our reach; he enters this oracle to help us find it. 

If you've pulled this card, you are now ready to embody the solar energies and radiate them into the world around you. You have the opportunity to experience a sacred marriage and enter into the company of gods, becoming fully aware of your divinity. As you meditate on the image of Amun-Ra, you may experience a feeling of radiant power and wholeness, and a readiness to step fully into your power in the world. 

Choose wisely what you create from this auspicious moment. Remember that whatever you manifest in the physical world not only shines in the visible, blazing light of Ra but also reflects the Great Mystery of the unseen, Amun, the hidden face of the sun. 

Card #3 Osiris

Regeneration: Transmutation • Beauty

Osiris is the enlightened ruler and husband of Isis who was murdered by his brother Set. Through the love and magical practices of Isis, he was revived sufficiently to transmit to her the seed of Horus. He had previously fathered Anubis with Isis's sister, Nephthys.

In Egyptian mystery teachings, all beings strive to awaken as Osiris. The purpose of scriptures such as the Egyptian Book of the Dead, which is actually the Book of Coming Forth by Day, is to guide souls through the transition of death, as well as the transitions of the shamanic rites of passage through death and the Underworld. 

Although Osiris has long been associated with death and called the Lord of the Underworld, it is more appropriate to acknowledge him here as the archetypal regenerative principle that transmutes outworn, deteriorating form into its renewed, shining manifestation of beauty. Osiris can be found in the primordial, watery deep, and in the river itself. He invites us to let go and rest upon his earthy green chest as he wraps his supportive arms around our bodies and turns us into that which we're in the process of becoming. 

If you've chosen this card, you have been asked to enter deeply into the process of transmutation and regeneration. You are being given the opportunity to experience death of the old consciously and to embrace the beauty that is possible for each of us to experience as we are reborn into the next level of our potential. 

Things are changing in your world, and it can be an exciting time. Regardless of what is happening around you, take time to be quiet, and listen for the whispers from Osiris that come from the deepest recesses of your being. He will speak to you of possibilities, potential, and beauty. Feel the stirrings of regeneration within you when you commune with him. 

If you enjoyed this interactive reading, meet me back here on the Nobella Grace Blog every Monday so I can help get your week set off in the right direction with each card picked with YOU in mind! :)

 

XOXO, Karabears

Let's Talk {{Tunics}}

Happy Wednesday Mermaids!

Let's talk {{tunics}}! 

Tunics are by far my FAVORITE fall staple! With an amazing length, flowy fit, and flattering look, they take up most of my closet! They can be worn so many different ways and I'd love to show you some of my favorite outfits using a tunic as the focal point!

First Up: 

{{Out + About}}

One of my favorite ways to wear a tunic is out + about with a pair of destroyed denim! I love the {{Denim + Lace Striped Tunic}} paired with the {{Paige Skinny Jeans}}! Just add some booties for a simple and chic weekend look! I think this tunic would also look fabulous worn unbuttoned with a white tank or graphic tee underneath!

{{Date Night}}

The great thing about tunics is depending on the length, they can be worn as a dress! The beautiful striped {{Bailey Tunic}} has an awesome hi low hemline making it long enough in the front and back for leggings! I added motorcycle booties for a classic look that's sure to have your date giving you tons of compliments...PLUS it's beyond comfy! #winwin :)

 {{Office Chic}}

Why not wear a tunic at the office too? I paired the lovely {{Jane Tunic Top}} with grey Stella skinnies from Banana Republic. I am dyinggggg over the unique detail of lace sleeves to add a feminine touch to this look! To finish the ensemble, I grabbed my favorite slate grey motorcycle booties. An easy, breezy look in snap!

Thanks for reading lovelies! How do YOU wear your favorite Nobella Grace tunic? Leave me a comment below + let me know!

Until Next Time

Xoxo

Jenna

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